this article I stand in the perspective of a college student, I am now graduating soon, so there is a right to speak.
a, growth experience
first, let’s take a look at our upbringing, kindergarten, primary school, junior high school, high school, University (Graduate). Before high school, we are basically subject to constraints, there are teachers, but also from the family, so the general period of the child is divided into two kinds, rebellious and obediently (nonsense?). Rebellious because of too many constraints, the heart has become rebellious heart, some people may be more outgoing personality; boys are relatively more introverted, submissive (if you count it). Whether it is obediently or rebellious, once in high school, the situation will be greatly changed. Most of the students in high school are far from home on at least half an hour, need to take the bus, and then bound to live on campus, from the family will instantly become very few, moreover, high school teachers will not be as severe as junior middle school primary school, high school teachers feel that students have grown up, have their own mind and self-discipline, not necessary to force students to do what. This will lead to what? Self indulgence! There is a constraint for nearly 8 years, live in fresh and made new friends excited, will make this part of the students self class slack, reading novels, playing all day, turn off the lights at night playing mobile phone chat, dating and so on. This will inevitably lead to a decline in academic performance, the school of Arts and placement, if the prodigal turn round, the entrance is more hanging (which I am a member of T_T). If admitted to the three streams of the University, then this part of the life of the students and the university students will be completely different (as far as I know, basically).
two, the turning point of life
turning point in life there will be two, one is the college entrance examination, and the other is the University’s grasp of the time of four years. As I mentioned above, because of the high school, I didn’t work hard and went to the three stream university. In fact, this is inevitable! Three flow of university teachers than the 1/10 class, the school atmosphere is not a level, often there will not learn, just bully people (of course also have a first-class university, but rarely). Next, this is my article about the place, not to venture as an excuse! Whether it is a first-class university or university or three, do not want to venture as an excuse! Especially in this part of the students on the three universities, your own starting point on the far, to those the first-class university students to catch up, we must put more effort and energy. Many students in the University for four years is like this:
1) freshman. Just enter the university is very fresh, abide by the rules, can do basic absenteeism is not too late to leave early, complete assignments on time, even a perfunctory.
2) sophomore. After a great experience, to the university campus is not strange, treat the teacher is also no pressure, start >